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Keep up with every kid and family

Jot a note after a conversation. Tend files it by person and family and hands you the follow-up to send.

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One loop, start to finish

Tend's note pad with a freeform note about a conversation after youth night

Capture it before you forget

Open the pad from any screen and write the conversation however it comes out. No forms, no required fields.

Tend's people directory showing youth, parents and consent status

It files itself by person and family

Tend reads the note, shows you who it thinks it's about, and only files it once you confirm. Households, relationships and consent stay in one place.

Tend's messages screen showing a suggested follow-up with approve, snooze and dismiss actions

You get a draft — you do the sending

Every follow-up arrives as an editable draft with the reason it was suggested. Nothing ever goes out on its own.

Built for a room full of kids

Tend suggests, you send

No message ever leaves without you approving it.

Consent is a gate

Direct contact with a minor stays blocked until permission is on file.

Sensitive notes stay with you

Possible disclosures are flagged and never turned into drafts.

No scoring of kids

Tend suggests actions, never ratings or wellness dashboards.

Keep up with everyone, calmly

Free to set up. Bring your own phone number and email, or let Tend send for you.

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